The right and the "right".

Life is a wonderful game. 

The reason it is wonderful is because you never lose in this game. You either win or you delay your victory but you can not lose except if you choose to. 

They say 

"Our life is the reflection of the choices that we make." 

But we always wonder what wrong decisions have I took?

Isn't it amazing that when we make a decision we feel that what we are doing is right? or "my view point is correct." But we fail to look it from all sides and when we realize our mistake its too late. Like they say

"Experience is a comb that you get after losing all your hair"

The thing is that while taking decisions we all assume certain things without any supporting event,logic or reason. There is a small "sheik challis" in all of us and that leads us to the wrong choice.its not that because you choose the wrong option or you took a wrong decision your life is over.Everything is rectifiable if you want to. The game obviously penalizes  you for the wrong choice but you are still in the game and can win eventually.So the bottom line is selecting the option which is really right for you and not that which you think is 'right'.
It is really important for us to learn from the mistakes we made earlier in the game and try and not to repeat them. Because successive failures will make us weak and will make us give up. We must remember 

"Quitters don't survive"

when we quit, the game is still on but we have stopped playing. So whatever happens don't give up. Losing hope is as good as committing a suicide.
So, whenever we make choices we must have an objective  look from all the sides before jumping onto one.

P.S: Throughout my blog I have used "we" because this is also addressed to myself.